Vol. 3 No. 6                                                                                                                    August 2001

Bell Island Community Policing Newsletter
"Community Policing - Everyone’s Business"

Royal Canadian Mounted Police
Avalon East District - Bell Island Detachment
Writer/Editor: Cst. Scott Stephenson


RCMP COMMUNITY POLICING

....is a partnership between the police and the community, sharing in the delivery of police services. Members of this Detachment pledge to:

TREAT all people equally and With respect;

UPHOLD the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms;

SERVE and PROTECT the community

WORK with the community and other agencies to prevent or resolve problems that effect the
community's safety and quality of life.


NEWS FROM THE TOWN OF WABANA
by Diane Butler

ELECTIONS
On Tuesday, Sept. 4, 2001, thirteen (13) people were nominated for the upcoming municipal election which will be held on Sept. 25, 2001.

The following have been nominated:
Note those marked with * are incumbent.

For Mayor:
Mr. Gary Gosine *
Mr. Gordon Shea

For Councillors:
Ms.Kay Crane
Mr. Wayne Curnew *
Mr. Brian Kent *
Ms. Debbie Kent
Dr. Alexa Laurie
Mr. Dave O'Keefe
Mr. John Pendergast *
Ms. Helen Pitts * Mr. David Rose
Mr. Don Squires
Ms. Daisy Wade

There will be two ballots on election day, one for Mayor and the other for Councillors. You will be given two ballot papers when you go to vote. On the Mayor's ballot you vote for one candidate, and on the councillors ballot you vote for any number up to, but not more than 6 candidates. Shortly after the election a meeting will be held where a Deputy Mayor will be chosen from the six elected councillors.
All voting will take place at the Wabana Complex between the hours of 8am and 8pm on Tuesday, Sept. 25, 2001.

DON'T FORGET TO GET OUT AND VOTE ON SEPT. 25, 2001.

BOIL ORDER
Please be advised that the boil order for the Town of Wabana is still in place and residents are advised to boil their water before drinking. This boil order will remain in place until our pumping stations have a chlorination system installed.

SCHOOL ZONES & SCHOOL BUSES
by Cst. Scott Stephenson

As you are all probably aware school is back in session for another year and that means kids will be walking on the roads. For those not aware the school zones are in effect from 8:00 am to 5:00 pm on regular school days.

Fines for speeding in school zones range from $50.00 to $275.00 and 0 to 4 points.

Passing a school bus with it's red lights activated carries a fine of $45.00 and 6 points.

BELL ISLAND MINOR HOCKEY
by Karen Seward
P.O. Box 958
Bell Island, NF
AOA 4HO
"Working As A Team For All Our Teams"
President: Mr. Norm King

The Bell Island Minor Hockey Association has enjoyed a very successful summer thanks to the fundraising efforts of our players, parents and executive. Projects included Bell Island Day activities, $500 draws, a bam dance and our bingo, which are ongoing each Monday night at the Legion. Our heartfelt thanks go out to the many volunteers who worked so tirelessly on our children's's behalf over these past few months.

Our children must feel secure in the knowledge that so many members of the community are supporting their efforts. What a great confidence builder and boost to their self-esteem!
A registration date has not been finalized as of yet, but will occur early in the fall.

If you've been looking for a new way to exercise and meet friends, now's the time. Perhaps you've just moved to the community and would like you're children to meet others. This is the way. Nothing promotes friendship and community spirit like a good game of hockey.
It is also time for us as parents to examine our own behaviour at not only hockey games but at all competitive sporting events our children are participating in. We need to encourage sportsmanship and respect not only for the officials and coaches but also amongst the players themselves. Children are so impressionable and we may not always realize that comments made in the heat of the moment maybe the ones that last in that child's mind for a lifetime. There are many ways to promote fair play and camaraderie in sports. But the most important and lasting way is through our example. If you see a child make a good play, tell him or her, even if they are on the opposing team. If you see a child that's working hard, make sure their efforts are not unnoticed, even if they don't score that goal or they do strike out. If you see a child whose parents are not at the game, cheer for him or her. Those parents may be at work, or sick, or maybe couldn't afford to travel to the game. It may have taken the last $15 or $20 they had in order for their child to play the tournament. In an economy such as ours, that is more often the case than not. That child needs to know that even if their parents are not there in the stands, they're there in spirit and are proud of them. God bless them for making many sacrifices in order that their child can have a positive sports experience. When you see these parents, tell them what a good job their child did and let them know that they do have a lot of support at their games. It means so much to know that their child is being rooted for.
If you have a problem with an official or a coach, bring it to their attention privately. Degrading them in front of the children or other parents undermines their authority and benefits no one. These people are the ones you're entrusting the care of your
child to. Show them the respect they deserve. These people are volunteers who care enough about children to devote their time and energy to them. If you have serious concerns about your child's safety of the care they're receiving, by all means contact your executive. That's why were here.
Nobody's perfect, we all make mistakes. We need to make these mistakes learning experiences. Our common bond is that we love our children and we want what's best for them. Lets make it our goal to have Bell Island to lead the way in sportsmanship and respect. We can teach our children to encourage each other and take pride in each other's accomplishments. Let us work together to promote fun and physical activity. We need to remember that these teams are not being paid six figure salaries to play these games. They're children wanting to get together with their friends to spend time having good, clean, competitive, innocent fun. These children will grow up to become productive, respected adults. Who can ask for a better legacy? By our example we can not only teach our children to win humbly, but also to lose graciously.

BELL ISLAND COMMUNITY FOOD BANK
by Marilyn Sheppard

On behalf of the Bell Island Food Bank we would sincerely like to thank AT&T (Crystal Baker) for the great effort she put in to this fund raiser. Words cannot do justice for the work she put into this project. With all her time, effort, frustrations and with doors being closed on her many times, she always fought back and opened another one. At one point she thought it wasn't going to work but again she bounced back and came up with something new. Thank you doesn't seem enough for her hard work and dedication to the food bank.

We wish to extend our sincere gratitude to all you people who, in any way, contributed to this tournament (players, sponsors, volunteers, the workers at the golf course and the people who made food donations). Thank you very much. Your kind donation which exceeded $2300.00 could not have come at a better time. With schools just opening and the school lunch program starting there will be a greater demand on us for assistance.

We would also like to thank the nine teams involved. Among them were two teams from Bell Island. The Food Bank team of Wallace Highmore, Fred Highmore, Chris Hammond, Jeff Ivany and Sgt. Ron Andrews who won THE MOST HONEST TEAM (which is last place).
Wabana team of Paul Connors, Marion Tucker, Joan Upshall, Nathaniel Sheppard and Jim Woodman.
The RCMP team of Cst. Scott Stephenson of Bell Island Detachment (who we didn't recognize out of uniform), Cst. Ed Rossiter of Avalon East Highway Patrol (former officer stationed here), Sgt. George Simmons of Avalon East District/Holyrood , Cst. Paul Shephard of Headquarters in St. John's and Cst. Rick Grant of Ferryland Detachment who won first place. Congratulations to you all.

A special thank you to our Mayor and Board Member for attending the tournament especially after his ordeal from the previous days, it only goes to show his true dedication. Our volunteers Helena Highmore, Shirley Murphy, Irene Delahunty, Rev Sheppard, Clara Hammond and last but not least our cook, Gerald Hynes, thank you guys for making it such a success.

The tournament was a great success and we wish to thank each and every one of you for your contribution to it. We are hoping this is going to be an annual event and hope to see you all again next year. A word of advice to Sgt. ANDREWS, "GET PRACTICING".

AUGUST HAPPENINGS
by Cst. Scott Stephenson

-In the early morning hours of August 1st unknown suspects smashed some windows out of the Wabana Boy's and Girl's Club van when it was parked in front of the club. It would seem that these people have nothing of any value to give to society by doing such senseless acts. I hope that whoever you are you can look proudly in the mirror in the morning and feel good about yourself.
-Also on August 1st culprits caused damage to Operation Sunshine.
-A group of people were checked on August 1st, hanging out at the # 2 Mine Tours building on Compressor Hill were checked and found to be in possession of opened beer.
-Windows were broken out of two houses on Theater Ave. The incidents were reported to police on August 1st.
-A 16 year-old female was found laying face down in an intoxicated state during a routine check at the Teen Center on August 4th by police. She was taken to hospital and her family advised.
-On August 6th while police were on a routine patrol in Lance Cove, a 15 year-old female and a 16 year-old male were caught drinking beer. They were turned over to their parents.
-Police received a complaint of damage to the lighthouse on August 8th. The suspect(s) kicked in the outside door of the lighthouse and some of the windows were also broken. No damage was done to the equipment inside. This appears to be another one of those crimes where the person(s) responsible used very little thought and didn't consider the consequences if the lighthouse was put out of service.
-A 21 year-old Bell Island man will be appearing in court on October 17th to face charges of assault and causing a disturbance by fighting. The incident took place on Steve Neary Blvd. in the early morning hours of August 11th.
-2 incidents of damage were reported to police on August 16th. One resident had a stone thrown at the side of his house, while another resident had a ceramic dog stolen and smashed from her front yard.
-A resident on The Green called police on August 16th to report that someone had broke a window in her house while she was at home.
-Unknown suspect(s) broke into a shed on Fourth Street. The incident was reported on August 19th.
-Police received a complaint of grass fires in the West Mines area on August 23rd. The Wabana Volunteer Fire Department attended and put out the fires.
-Police received a complaint on August 26th of an assault which had occurred at a residence on Cabot Street. The matter is still under investigation.

SENSELESS ACTS

Cemetery Damage
by Cst. Roy Kendall

On August 20th, it was reported to the police that there had been a theft and damage done to a headstone in the old Roman Catholic Cemetery. Culprit(s) had the nerve to remove the flowers and damage the praying hands which were brought in from British Columbia. Naturally this was very upsetting to the family and they would like whoever is responsible to show proper respect and not to do this anymore.

Lighthouse Damage
by Cst. Stephen Harper

Once again vandals have struck again by doing senseless damage to the Lighthouse here on Bell Island. The tireless efforts of the civic minded people of Bell Island have again taken another setback by this vandalism to one of the sites that draws tourists to Bell Island. The longer these tourists stay on Bell Island the more money they are likely to spend. What these senseless people fail to realize is that every tourist dollar that filters into the Bell Island economy will have a positive impact on everyone that lives here including themselves.

Sites like the Lighthouse, the Mine Tour, Murals, The Grotto and the Memorials are points of interest to everyone who visits Bell Island. If these sites are damaged to the point that they are just an eyesore the tourist traffic will be reduced and so to will any economic benefit they bring.

For the mindless person(s) and those of you who know who they are, consider this " I f the number of people using the ferry is reduced is it not reasonable for the number of ferry trips to also be reduced."
Other recent strikes by these person(s) are the damage done to the Boys and Girls Club building and later on their van. For those of you who do not know this facility runs on a shoestring budget and can ill afford to have to pay for the senseless done by these acts of vandalism.

So if any of the civic minded residents of Bell Island know who is responsible for any damage you might want to speak to them and get them to stop. If this does not work or if you would rather report them to the police or to Crime Stoppers please do so. All information will be treated with the utmost confidence.

DEATH OF AN INNOCENT

I went to a party, mom, I remembered what you said, You told me not to drink, mom, so I drank soda instead. I really felt proud inside, mom, the way you said I would. I didn't drink and drive, mom, even though the others said I should I know I did the right thing, mom, I know you are always right. Now the party is finally ending, mom, as everyone is driving out of sight. As I got into my car, mom I knew I'd get home in one piece. Because of the way you raised me, so responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, mom, but as I pulled out onto the road, The other car didn't see me, mom, and hit me like a load. As I lay there on the pavement, mom, I hear the policeman say, The other guy is drunk, mom, and now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, mom, I wish you'd get here soon. How could this happen to me, mom? My life just burst like a balloon. There is blood all around me, mom, and most of it is mine. I hear the medic say, mom, I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, mom, I swear I didn't drink. It was the others, Mom.... The others didn't think. He was probably at the same party as I. The only difference is, he drank and I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom? It can ruin your whole life. I'm feeling sharp pains now. Pains just like a knife. The guy who hit me is walking, Mom, and I don't think it's fair. I'm lying here dying and all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, mom. Tell daddy to be brave. And when I go to heaven, mom, put "Daddy's Girl" on my grave. Someone should have told him, mom, not to drink and drive. If only they had told him, mom, I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, mom. I'm becoming very scared. Please don't cry for me, mom. When I needed you, you were always there. I have one last question, mom, before I say good-bye. I didn't drink and drive, so why am I the one to die??

HEALTH ISSUES

SEDATIVES
Sedatives are drugs that "sedate," or slow down the central nervous system. Alcohol is a sedative, although we often do not think of it that way. Sleeping pills are also sedatives.

Barbiturates, which are particularly strong and available only by prescription, are one class of sleeping pill. Barbiturates include such drugs as Seconal and Nembutal.

Unfortunately, sedatives can also be abused because of their mood-altering effects. Sedatives are best used for short periods of time.

Short Term Effects
-A small dose of a sedative creates a feeling of calm, drowsiness and well-being and relieves tension. Sedatives also induce sleep.

- The effects of larger doses of sedatives are similar to those experienced by someone who has had too much to drink; staggering, slurred speech, difficulty in thinking clearly. The person may also have blurred vision, impaired perception of time and space, slowed reflexes, and reduced sensitivity to pain.

-An overdose of a sedative can be fatal. Unconsciousness and death from respiratory arrest can occur.

-Combining sedatives with alcohol or other drugs is also dangerous. The effect of alcohol and sedatives together is greater than either alone, and no one can predict the combined effect.

Long Term Effects
-A person using sedatives over a long period of time can develop anemia, impaired liver function and depression.

-An unexpected long-term effect is disrupted sleep. Sedatives do not produce a natural sleep. They help a person fall asleep, but do not allow the deep sleep and dreaming that people need. Instead of feeling rested, a person who has been taking sedatives can end up feeling tired and irritable the next day.
Tolerance and Dependence
-Tolerance is the body adapting to the presence of a drug. When tolerance to a drug increases, more of the drug is necessary to achieve the same effect. Sedative users soon develop tolerance to the calming effects of these drugs. By contrast, there is usually no tolerance to the harmful effects - more drug produces more harm. When tolerance builds, it is dangerous to continue using the drug.

-If a person wishes to stop using sedatives, use should be reduced gradually under a doctor's supervision. Restlessness, anxiety and insomnia are common withdrawal symptoms. If withdrawal is too abrupt, there is a risk of delirium, convulsions and even death.

- Sedatives can be helpful when used over a short period, but can be dangerous if abused. There are many ways to deal with stress and sleeplessness that do not involve the use of sedatives or any other drug. Some people find exercise, bio-feedback and relaxation techniques helpful.

CRIME STOPPERS
Did you know
Anonymous tips to Crime Stoppers have helped police solve more than 1000 cases!
-Over 890 people have been arrested and more than 2000 charges have been laid.
-Over $760,000.00 worth of stolen property has been recovered.
-Over $690,000.00 worth of illegal drugs and contraband has been seized
-Over $800,000.00 in arson and frauds have been solved.
-There have been 54 fugitives arrested
-Crimes of the week solved 29
-Over $285,000.00 in customs seizures made.
-Awards paid $79,800.00
-Over 4000 calls a year received.
Crime Stoppers is a non-profit community-led charitable organizations that depends on your public donations.

Crime Stoppers offers cash for clues!

If you have information to help solve a crime, call Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-TIPS

Remember, your call is anonymous and Crime Stoppers does not subscribe to call display.

EFFECTIVE PARENTING OF TEENS

TO BEGIN...

An important notice to all parents
Before you begin examining the advice and information in the following, there are a few important points to remember:

-No one is born knowing how to parent
-Be gentle on yourself. Make sure to look after your own needs so that you will be able to look after those of people who depend on you.
-Learn from your mistakes. Educate yourself. There is a tremendous amount of parenting information in videos, text books and magazines that you can find at libraries and other community resource centres.
-Get help. Seek out support if you are feeling overwhelmed. Get help from people you feel comfortable with, for example: school counsellors, help lines, doctors, friends and other parents.
-Take a parenting course.
-The ways in which parents give information and guidance are as important as the facts offered. Some of the most effective parents are those who make a great effort to model the appropriate or desired behaviour, whether it be in conflict resolution, negotiating, problem solving, or just daily living.

IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO BE A PARENT
We can learn what our adolescents need by listening and observing. Are you an approachable person? Can your teens ask you questions? Are you available when they need you? You should be.

Trust yourself. Use common sense. Look things up if you do not understand. An adolescent does not usually rebel against his/her parents but against their power - it feels unfair and unjust. Give them some room to make their own mistakes. Teens need to set some of their own limits.

Because "belonging" is seriously important to teens, they often form a society of their own with new fads in appearance and slang expressions. These things spread as fast as spilled water and change just as quickly. Accept them.

Your teens need your respect and recognition. Let them share in some of the family decision making. Encourage responsibility by making use of their abilities and remember to give them praise, love and understanding.

Have fair expectations of teens. You should treat teens as you would like to be treated. Remember they are not children any more, even though they may make inappropriate decisions at times.

COMMUNICATIONS WITH TEENS
-Speak with respect. Envision them as friends or work colleagues. It will affect how you deal with them.
-The environment in which the communication takes place is as important as the words themselves. Choose times and locations carefully. Body language and positioning are important.
Everyone should be at the same level (sitting) and in neutral environment.
-If things get too stressful a cooling off period would help. Take time out!
-Learn to express feelings rather than placing blame. Use "I" statements as opposed to "You make me _____ when you do ____."
-Always listen attentively.
-Find a way to say what you believe without using a "preacher tone". Don't lecture. They'll tune you out.
-Don't worry if your teen doesn't feel like talking. Respect their privacy.
-Find ways to let your adolescent know how much they mean to you.
-Don't be exuberant in your effort to communicate - actions speak louder than words.
-Talk about alcohol, drugs and sexuality with your children early in life - it will be easier to discuss said issues when they reach teens. If speaking about these matters is too difficult, share your values and opinions through discussions of books, T.V. programs or movies. Perhaps another respected adult could be asked to speak with your teens.
-A badly timed kiss, word of praise, question or teasing can be mortifying to a teen. Teens find it hard to laugh at their own absurdities. Worst of all is to shame them in front of friends. Be patient - this too shall pass.

WAYS TO INFLUENCE YOUR TEEN
-Make sure their friends are welcome in your home.
-Be a good role model.
-Compliment them when they do something well.
-Build their self-confidence in any way you can. Help them get involved in activities which will make them feel good about themselves.
-Don't make a big deal out of minor issues ( messy rooms, earrings or long hair). Usually the less said the better.
-Expect friction and don't take it too personally.
-Expect things and show confidence in them.

REMEMBER YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS EXPERIENCE

THANK YOU
by Cst. Scott Stephenson

The following businesses are kind enough to allow the newsletter to be displayed for pick-up.
-Bayview Grocery (Kitchen's)
-Byrne's Easy Save
-Clarke & Clarke
-Co-Op Bakery
-Crafts and Decor
-House of Stoyles
-Jukebox Junction
-King's Ultramar
-Murphy's Garage
-Ridgeway Variety
-Shirley's Hair Styling
-Skanes Foodland
-Slade's Food Town
-Stoyle's Meat Market
-Sun Sun Restaurant
-The Coffee Shop (Beach)
-Verge House
-Wabana Town Council
-West Mines Convenience
-Yik's Store